Friends With Benefits

So what is a friend with benefits? It's basically a friend that you engage in sexual activity with. But the key to this is that there aren't susposed to be any strings attached. Let's be realistic it just doesn't happen. Someone always becomes attached and wants to take it further. Ladies once again you fit the bill... LOL, sorry but i'm here to report my own findings. So one person usually develops feelings and wants to transform the friends with benefits situation into an actual relationship. In rare cases both parties feel that way and they end up having great relationships. More oftenly though the other person doesn't feel the same way and they want to keep it casual. Now the other person is left feeling hurt and used and the friendship is destroyed. So you have to think to yourself is a few nights of sexual pleasure worth losing a good friend? Chances are it isn't because good friends are hard to come by. My advice to everyone is not to have a friends with benefits relationship as much as you think you can handle it, I can almost guarentee that it won't turn out well. Things between you and your friend will never be the same...